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5 Key Tips for Getting Through Your Divorce Mediation

It’s no secret that getting a divorce can be a messy prospect. After all, it’s just as much an emotional battle as it is a legal one, which means that things can get heated at the drop of a hat.

For people who want to keep the proceedings out of the courts, of course, mediation is a great option—though it doesn’t always mean the separation will be any less of an ordeal.

Fortunately, keeping a few simple divorce mediation tips in mind can be a great way to streamline the proceedings, reduce any stress on your kids, and get you more of what you want. Here’s what you should know before you get started.

  1. Find a Good Divorce Mediator

Going through a divorce without a good mediator can be a tough prospect. Because most states have no laws or mandates to hold mediators accountable, it’s important to do your research and find a reputable expert.

Make sure you’re working with a certified professional who has years of divorce mediation experience under their belt.

  1. Look for Avenues of Mutual Benefit

If you approach divorce mediation with the goal of making the other party pay for any perceived wrongdoing, the process can become incredibly difficult. While it may feel hard to put aside the pain and hurt you’ve experienced, it’s the only way to make your mediation a success.

Instead, working to find strategies that benefit everyone can help the process go smoothly, allowing you to avoid messy arguments and streamline your mediation.

  1. Set Personal Goals

Before you go into mediation, set personal goals to strive for. What are you hoping to get out of the process? Consider your goals for your marital assets, parenting time, child support, and spousal maintenance.

Having an idea of what you want to negotiate on—and your ideal result—can make it easier to stay on track.

  1. Put Your Family’s Interests First

As you set goals and begin the negotiations, don’t forget to keep your children in mind. Conversations around custody and child support can become heated, but putting your children’s best interests first can help you keep your priorities straight.

Remember to fight for things that will support your children in the long run, not just things that you want or prefer. In addition, don’t forget that both you and your spouse should update your kids about the proceedings—without pointing fingers.

  1. Consider Your Finances

If you want your mediation to be a success, it’s important to be open about your financial situation. Be prepared to discuss your debts and assets, your bank accounts, and other documents.

Don’t hesitate to also work out a budget to understand what your new regular expenses will look like after the divorce. In addition, don’t forget that you’ll need to update your estate plan after getting the divorce, as your financial situation will likely have changed.

Follow These Tips for Successful Divorce Mediation

If you follow these tips for divorce mediation, you’ll find it much easier to go into the process with the focus and preparation you need. Divorce can be a messy prospect, but that doesn’t mean yours has to be. With a little forethought and some support from the right mediator, you’ll find that both you and your partner can communicate your needs and goals before walking away satisfied.

Need more tips to help you through difficult legal situations like mediation? Be sure to check out our other legal guides for additional insights.

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